There is a bitter sweet sickness to consistency
The bitterness of no matter how many clothes you buy, places you go, people you see, haircuts you get... you are still, in fact, within the shell of the person you were before all these desperate attempts to break free. Thus, are we still the same people we were at birth? Never changing? Never moving forward?
These questions draw immediate attention to the sweet side of all considered aspects. We are who we were meant to be, we are who we were made to be... a cluster of lost and confused beings searching for a reason and thus, we are more ourselves during times when we feel most lost then we have ever been.
Who are you really? You are you, and nothing will change that.
You are not something that is in need of fixing, you are distinctively different to every other person around you and be thankful for that. As no matter who you are trying to be like, or who is trying to be you, you have always been, and will always be, the same entity and that makes being yourself more worthwhile than ever.
- Cowgirl in the Sand